turmoil situation

I have know idea what is my Erjiedoing, she has not been helpful in the family, in this kind of situation somemore. My Dajieis really not happy plus stress plus tired. What to do? There are so many things, such as insurance claim, law firm thingy, Traffic police, hospital bill and SBS thingy. Arh, there are really many things on her head, which I cant help to carry the burden. My Dajie just had an argument with my mum about my Erjie’s attitude towards my dad. I have no idea and not in the position to ask, I feel like asking my Erjie, but then forget it la, later make things worse. I really don’t know what to do, felt rather useless not to be able to help my Dajie to settle those things. Hospitals’ bills came in today, $2,000 plus for CGH and $2,000 plus for AMKCH (15 days only). Oh my gosh, how to survive? Maybe the proposed of contract basis is a good thing for me after all. If I were to be permanent staff, I might have to contribute to CPF and pay back my dad a certain amount every month for poly fee. Even though I give it back to my dad, I’m not sure whether can he use or put back to CPF. Haiz… There is so many things unknown. In additional, recently my dad found out that at AMKCH he has to actually pay for the rehab exercise each session he do. We thought it was in the package of $128 per day. $128 x 15days = $1920, now dont know why is it 3,000 (before govt subsidy).